Wednesday, April 8, 2009

What are TRUE friends?

Friends come and go in your life. They might make you laugh and cry, but most importantly of all, they love you for who you are. It doesn't matter what a person looks like or what kind of clothes they wear. It is what is on the inside that counts. It is the actions they take, no matter how big or small, to show how much of a good friend they are, and being there for you no matter what, even when things are bad.

A TRUE friend is someone you can trust and who won't judge you. Despite what someone may think, talking about a friend behind their back is not a true friend. A TRUE friend will not care how much you have..or have not. A TRUE friend will be there no matter what your situation is. A TRUE friend will put forth the effort to remain your friend, and will try to bridge the distance.

I can only speak on what I feel. I will go to the ends of the earth for a friend, in good times and bad. I hope that my TRUE friends know that and know that I love them with all of my heart. I appreciate my friendships and I never take them for granted.
Sure I have had people come into my life, and some of them have gone out of my life. I have to believe that they aren't in my life for a reason. I know that for a few, I was just tired of putting in the effort and not seeing the effort in return. Also, I am not into the game playing. Life is different for everyone. We don't pass judgement, and we expect that our TRUE friends won't pass judgement on us. I don't need any DRAMA in my life. So if you really want to know what we are up to, stop asking others and put in the effort. We haven't gone anywhere...our email is still the same, and the same goes for our phone.

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